All men are fascinated by big lingams, that's something we all have in common. When showering after the gym or swimming, or even when having a piss in a public toilet we all have a little peep. Even though there may not be any desire for actual contact it's as if the mind has taken a photo of that "erotic image" and can flash back to have another look at any time. We may wonder about what type of sex the owner of the "image" enjoys. We may get sexually aroused thinking about him shagging his wife. That doesn't mean we want to have a gay tantric massage with him, even though just before you "cumm" you think about actual touching his beautiful lingam. I once had a very old man come to see me. A few months short of his 90th. birthday. He had seen a small "ad" of mine in a local newspaper. He had gone through his life always wanting to actually touch another man's lingam but had never had the courage to do anything about it. After a while chatting about the war and stuff he looked at me and said, "I've left it too late. Haven't I". I wanted to lie. But I couldn't. The next day I went out and done something that I would not usually have had the courage to do. It had a very profound effect on me. Having a tantric massage with another man does not make you a homosexual. Ok, so it's certainly not what you would discuss with your mates down the pub on a Saturday night so it remains a very private fantasy. Others will experiment, they will occasionally feel a real need to have tantric massage with another man, or simply to touch another man's big fat lingam. Some men are very disturbed by this tiny part of tantra and it becomes a very big issue for them. By Seb Cox
I'm a Gay guy. It"never ceases to amaze me" how many str8 lads/men etc do look at me (I'm not boasting/\"blowing my own trumpet" - if only I physically could. Albeit I'm 42, but I, perhaps, look years younger (for others to judge), very often observe "older" men (whatever that means) and younger lads (same applies..), give me frequent eye contact, even when they are with their girl friend/partner/wife etc. I get sooo confused in "those" situations... It's not long before "their lady" "knows" that their man is "looking elsewhere" - somehow, I "know within my gut" when "that look" from the aforesaid girlfriend/wife etc is about to "appear", and look elsewhere immediately before "it" happens (or so I think....). I "can't help" but recall the number of times that a guy has danced with me (I'm a good night club dancer - no arrogance intended, it's "just me"...), he's enjoying himself, only for his female "other half" feeling a need to "rescue him" - what's that about? pmsl!
ReplyDeleteI considered myself strictly straight but the most intense sexual experience I had was with my brother-in-law on a boys weekend! He crashed at our hotel after the rugby and we ended up sleeping off the piss in bed. I woke up to find his huge lingam sliding between my ass cheeks and balls while he massaged my lingam. Initially I thought 'Wot the Fuck?' But we had a fantastic night sucking and wanking each other to orgasm. We never talked about it after but I gotta say I often think about that tantric night. Who says you're either one way or the other? I certainly don't any more! Steve
ReplyDeleteI considered myself strictly straight but the most intense sexual experience I had was with my mate on a rugby weekend! He crashed at our hotel after the rugby and we ended up sleeping off the piss in bed. I woke up to find his huge lingam touching between my ass cheeks and balls while he massaged my lingam. Initially I thought 'Wot the Fuck?' But we had a fantastic night. We never talked about it after but I gotta say I often think about that night. Who saysyou're either one way or the other? I certainly don't any more! Steve
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